Poetry Sunday: Don't Hesitate by Mary Oliver
How about we share another Mary Oliver poem? After all, you can never have too many of those. In this one, the poet seems to acknowledge that it is often hard to simply live in and enjoy the moment, perhaps because we are afraid it can't last. She urges us to give in to that moment and fully experience the joy. Although "much can never be redeemed, still, life has some possibility left." Don't Hesitate by Mary Oliver If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, don’t hesitate. Give in to it. There are plenty of lives and whole towns destroyed or about to be. We are not wise, and not very often kind. And much can never be redeemed. Still, life has some possibility left. Perhaps this is its way of fighting back, that sometimes something happens better than all the riches or power in the world. It could be anything, but very likely you notice it in the instant when love begins. Anyway, that’s often the case. Anyway, whatever it is, don’t be afraid of its plenty. Joy is no...
Nice plant; I hadn't seen it before.
ReplyDeleteAccording to Wikipedia, some of the vines grow as far north as Delaware, but I'm sure they don't make it to your area. They are most happy in the South Central and Southeast parts of the continent.
DeleteYummmm :-) I may suggest this to my husband. We have had a Mars grapevine for a number of years and it gets progressively worse each year. Time to replace it, I think.
ReplyDeleteI think muscadines are the way to go for our area. I have a 'Black Fry' and a 'Cowart' vine and I can recommend both of them. They've done well for me, but I've had them for several years and there are newer varieties that may be better. Ison's Nursery (mail order) has a wide selection and that's where I bought mine.
DeleteI love muscadine jelly and muscadine wine, which I have sampled in the Carolinas. I made the mistake of buying some fresh, though - not exactly like eating the grapes I am used to where I live in upstate New York. Fascinating ripening habit.
ReplyDeleteNo, they are unlike grapes of European origin for sure. The skins are much thicker which doesn't really make them the best choice for eating, but they are wonderful for jellies and wines.
DeleteWe can grow grapes here in London too, but I have never considered it as they do take a lot of space, reading about yours makes me wish I had a slightly bigger garden :-)
ReplyDeleteThe thing about muscadines is that they can grow quite large, but they can also be ruthlessly pruned to keep them within the space allotted for them.
DeleteHow big do they grow in one season - once the vines are a bit mature? Can I for example grow a vine trailing on my shed and keep it there without it taking over the rest of the garden during the summer? I have bad experience with my passion flower from previous garden, it grew from baby to monster in 3 years!
DeleteThey can get quite large in a season, but we keep ours pruned. A couple of vines like ours could cover a good-sized arbor in a season, but ours are on a post and wire system and they have to be trimmed every few weeks to keep them in check.
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