Ladder of Years by Anne Tyler: A review

 

For a brief time after I graduated college, I lived and worked in Baltimore. Whenever I read an Anne Tyler novel she takes me back there. She describes the city and its people so perfectly, I feel as though I'm walking those streets, riding those buses again. The house where Delia (short for Cordelia) lives with her family might be the house where I roomed while I lived there.

When we meet Delia, she is forty years old and has been long married to Sam Grinstead. They have three children, the youngest of whom is fifteen. Sam is a doctor who still makes house calls, like Delia's father before him.  The house they live in is the house that Delia grew up in and where Sam came to be her father's assistant when she was only seventeen.

Delia has two sisters, Eliza who has never married and Linda who is now divorced and has two young daughters. They all vacation together at the beach every year. It is a family tradition, but at age forty as she sits on the beach during their annual trip, Delia is feeling more and more distant from that family. Everything that her husband does seems to annoy her and after a disagreement with him, she walks along the beach and just keeps walking. She has left everyone behind without a word.

Delia hitches a ride with a truck driver to a new town, Bay Borough. There she found a room in a boarding house and got a job and set out to make a new life for herself. It's never really clear why she did this, other than, as she says at one point, she just liked the idea of starting again from scratch. But abandoning your family without a word and deciding to go it alone does seem a rather momentous response to a random feeling of ennui.

On the other hand, her family seemed a bit desultory in their attempts to find her. Apparently, they went on with their lives as before. Eventually, they do find her more than a year later but decide to leave her alone and not insist on her return. In the meantime, she has made that new life for herself, working as a housekeeper for a divorced man and his son. They have come to depend on her and think of her as an essential part of their family. 

When her daughter decides to get married, Delia is invited to the wedding and she goes. Will she stay? Will she abandon her "new family" to return to her old one? And what about the cat? Oh, yes. I forgot to mention an important character. Delia had adopted a stray cat as part of her new life.

This is a book about choices and how we make them. And the overall message seems to be that often we don't "make" them. We just slide into them without really thinking them through. We act on the spur of the moment and then find it hard to retrace our steps.

Anne Tyler always writes with such grace. In reading her words, we feel "Of course. How could it have been otherwise?" Her stories unfold with a certain passivity and inevitability. In this particular instance, I did not find much to like about any of her characters. The most likable of the lot were the father and son for whom Delia worked as housekeeper. I would have liked to spend more time with them.

My rating: 3 of 5 stars